Sherry Argov’s Why Men Marry Bitches is a relationship guide that challenges the traditional idea that being overly self-sacrificing or "nice" is the key to a committed marriage. Instead, Argov argues that men are drawn to a "bitch"—not in the sense of being mean, but in being a self-sufficient, confident woman who maintains her own identity and boundaries [1, 2].
The book is widely available through various retailers and platforms:
Entertainment truth: The most sought-after women in Hollywood (think: Zendaya, Margot Robbie before marriage) were never available 24/7. Men marry women who say, “I’d love to see you, but I have Pilates/book club/work.” Scarcity + substance = commitment.