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| Usage Type | Tone | Common Media Examples | Inclusivity | |-------------------------|---------------------------|------------------------------------------------|--------------| | Traditional/Aspirational | Formal, graceful | Period dramas, etiquette videos | Low (narrow ideal) | | Inclusive/Empowering | Warm, solidarity-building | Talk shows, feminist campaigns | High | | Ironic/Camp | Playful, exaggerated | Drag race, reality TV, satire | Medium (intentionally performative) | | Commercial/Targeted | Friendly but stereotyped | Beauty ads, rom-coms, women’s magazines | Low (reductive) | | Exclusionary/Gendered | Outdated, binary | Old game shows, formal ceremonies | Very low | | Self-Reference/Reclaimed| Varied (honest, funny) | Female-led podcasts, comedy, TikTok | High (context-dependent) | graceful | Period dramas